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4Choosing
books for your child
Parent Spot for
Parents of Pre-School Students
The message is clear:
reading to your child early on and often is one of the best ways
to ensure language development, to help forge a close and
nurturing bond and to instill a lifetime love of words and
reading.
But
when it comes time to choose what to read with children, parents
often draw a blank. Many of the places families visit—e.g.
bookstores and libraries—display a
vast array of books specifically aimed at the under-five
audience. Some are classics from parents’ own childhoods;
others are more recent ones that have won literary awards. Some
are based on characters from popular children’s television
shows; others include buttons which play a musical accompaniment
to the text.
With
so much to choose from, it’s understandable that parents are
left shaking their heads and wondering whether one book is
better than the next. Jennifer Birckmayer, co-author of
Bookstart: Selected Activities for Babies, Toddlers and Young
Children, says those that include beautiful illustrations and
inspired story lines truly are more enriching than those that
offer nothing more than ads for trendy characters. When choosing
books to share with your child, Birckmayer suggests that parents
apply the same high standards they would to choosing a well
balanced diet for their family. Just as fresh fruits, vegetables
and whole grains help encourage healthy bodies, reading
selections based on certain quality standards are key to helping
a child’s imagination and love of reading grow.
Who
gets to choose?
Birckmayer
says that for some young children, literary decision-making can
be overwhelming. If left up to the child, the decision might
come down to identification with a familiar television character
rather than whether the book meets the types of criteria
outlined at right. For this reason, Birckmayer suggests using
caution when taking your child along to purchase books.
If
a library is convenient, Birckmayer suggests that you and your
child go together. But it doesn’t always have to be a family
outing. When her own children were young, she and her family
lived far from the nearest library, making frequent trips
difficult. As a result, her husband would stop on the way home
from work and bring home armloads of new books to share with
their children. Not only was this more convenient for the
family, but it allowed him the time to carefully choose the
books and made for an anticipated and exciting event.
Here
are some questions that parents can use as guidelines when
selecting books for their children:
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Is
the book durable, i.e. is it made from materials that will
withstand repeated readings, chewing, handlings? This is an
important quality to consider when choosing books for very
young children.
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Is
the book safe for a young child to handle (no small parts or
sharp corners) and made from non-toxic materials?
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Is
the book about objects, animals, events or people that
children can recognize from their own life? Babies and very
young children often
find books with faces and photographs of children like
themselves involved in day-to-day activities fascinating.
("Hey, that little boy has purple boots just like
me!") Birckmayer says these types of books help
children make the connection that books can hold personal
and
intimate meaning for them.
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Are
the illustrations clear and appealing to a young child?
Birckmayer says that what might appeal to an adult’s sense
of beauty may be too overwhelming to a young child. For this
reason, she recommends starting very young children off with
books featuring one or two main objects on a page surrounded
with plenty of blank space. As children mature and their
interests and attention spans expand, books with more
detailed illustrations can be added to their repertoire.
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If
the book has words or sentences, are they short and simple
to understand? As with illustrations, the text will be more
meaningful if it doesn’t confuse or overwhelm the child.
Birckmayer says books that reflect the types of people and
activities that are like those the child regularly
experiences provide a sense of comfort and familiarity. Many
young children prefer books with realistic story lines for
most of their early childhood. Once a child is secure in his
or her world, books with fanciful story lines and magical
characters become more appropriate. Books such as Where the
Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak and Aesop’s Fables fall
into this category. Birckmayer suggests using the child’s
temperament to determine when to begin adding fantasy books
to his/her library.
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Does
your child’s reading selection contain books that will
help him/her learn about people of many ages and from a
variety of cultures? Do they avoid stereotypical portrayals
of people?
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Does
the book reflect your own family’s values?
Helping
children create their own books
Although
there are many wonderfully written and beautifully illustrated
books available for young children, one way of ensuring that
your child will find a book meaningful is to make one together.
The following are some ideas for fun bookmaking projects you can
do with your children including suggestions for household and
craft materials that are readily and inexpensively available.
(Remember to use caution when making books for young children
that the materials used are safe and toxin-free):
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Make
a book featuring family and friends by slipping pictures of
the people special to your child into an inexpensive photo
album.
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Bind
together a series of your child’s illustrations by using a
three-hole punch, reinforcing the holes with circular tabs
and tying the pages together with yarn. Have your child
dictate the text for the book.
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Use
leftover holiday cards interspersed with photographs of your
child during holiday celebrations as the basis for a
keepsake book
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Key
into your child’s particular interests. If zoo animals are
a favorite, scour the pages of magazines for pictures of
lions, polar bears and orangutans. With older children this
can become a fun scavenger hunt. Photos can be mounted using
glue sticks or paste on oak tag, cardboard or construction
paper (with one photo per page for very young children and
groups or collages of photos for older children). To insure
durability, individual pages can be laminated or preserved
with clear contact paper before binding. Older children may
like illustrating the cover or margins of pages and
dictating, or writing, the text for their book.
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Meaningful
photos and words can be slipped inside a series of colorful,
ready-made plastic pencil cases designed for three-ring
binders. These can then be held together with metal o-rings.
Photos and pictures can be added or replaced as the
child’s interests change or evolve.
What
books can do for children:
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Books
can
help children feel safe and secure (as a daily activity,
reading can reinforce feelings of safety and comfort when
books are about characters that the child can relate to).
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Books
help children feel they belong to a family or group.
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Books
help children learn about love and may even help them feel
loved themselves.
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Books
help children understand what it feels like to do something
important.
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Books
help children find out about things that are interesting to
them.
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Books
can be fun.
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Books
show children beautiful pictures and good writing.
Source
— Bookstart: Selected Activities for Babies, Toddlers and
Young Children
For permission to reprint
this article, please contact the Capital Region BOCES
Communications Service by e-mailing
dbushsuf@gw.neric.org.
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