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4Cheating
Teens
Parent Spot for Parents of High School Students
Teens across the country-and
some right here at home-readily admit they cheat on their
homework.
The 2004 Report Card on the Ethics of American Youth, a bi-annual
national survey of students in grades 9 through 12, reports that
more than 62 percent of teens say they cheated on exams within the
year prior to the survey. Eighty-three percent had copied
another's homework and 35 percent passed off information found on
the Internet as their own at least once.
Why teens cheat
Teens justify cheating in many ways. Some of their top
explanations include:
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Pressure to perform. As a college education becomes
more and more important for future success, strong and
struggling students alike are getting the message from lots of
sources-family, teachers, college admissions counselors - that
grades do count.
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"The pressure to do well is up. The demand to do good
is down, way down, particularly if it's the kind of do-gooding
that doesn't show up on a college application," said Harvard
University professor Dr. Dan Kindlon in a recent article in The
New York Times. Kindlon is also the author of Too Much of a Good
Thing: Raising Children of Character in an Indulgent Age.
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Lack of motivation. Teens can fail to see the
connection between what they are learning now and what they'll
be doing five years from now. When the learning doesn't seem
relevant, is repetitive-think memorization of the periodic table
of the elements-or just plain "boring," teens can feel justified
in getting through it in the quickest way possible. This can
mean sharing work with friends and finding ways to cheat during
exams.
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"Everybody else is doing it." During the teen years,
peer pressure can be intense. Wanting to measure up and fit in
can often sway even the most ethical kids to do things they know
are wrong. And honest students who don't cheat might fear
getting lower grades than their peers who do.
Cheating goes high-tech
Crib notes written on hands and cheat sheets sticking from the top
of binders are so "old school" compared to the technology many
teens now use to cheat at school.
The Internet has made researching topics much easier for students,
and there are many legitimate online study aids such as Sparknotes
and CliffNotes that can give students a leg up academically.
However, the Internet has also made it faster and simpler for
students to plagiarize (e.g., copy what they find when researching
online into a research paper, and then pass it off as their own.)
Computer-based instant messaging (IM) and cell phone's text
messaging also make it possible for students to privately
"collaborate" with friends on school work-even tests- that they
should be completing on their own.
Helping stem the cheating
trend: What families can do
Despite teens' admissions about cheating, the majority of the
24,763 students surveyed for the recent Report Card on the Ethics
of American Youth, gave themselves high marks for character-74
percent said their own ethics were better than those of their
peers. And almost all-98 percent-said that honesty, ethics and
good character are very important personal traits.
Though this inconsistency might seem puzzling, researchers say
that many kids view cheating as a necessary evil. After all, many
of the successful-and high-paid-giants of sports, business,
politics and entertainment have gotten where they are by bending
the rules (a.k.a. cheating). And often, kids convince themselves
that if they aren't caught cheating, then it isn't wrong.
So what can you as a parent do
to discourage your teen from cheating? Here are some ideas:
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Talk with your teens about cheating in a non-confrontational way
(e.g., starting the conversation with a line like "Hey, I just
read some overwhelming statistics about teens and cheating" vs.
"Have you ever cheated with your schoolwork?") Popular movies
and news reports that feature those who cheat can help spark a
conversation. Let teens know you understand there can be a lot
of pressure to perform well at school, and that the temptation
to get through by cheating might be powerful. But also let them
know that you believe cheating is wrong, that it short-changes
them academically and is not the way you want them to achieve
school success.
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Frequently check the Internet bookmarks/search history on your
family computer. There are hundreds of Web sites that
offer access to term papers and other research papers, including
Cheater.com,
CheatHouse.com and
Ezwrite.com
among others. If you find that someone in your family has been
visiting these types of sites, determine who it was and then ask
why. This lets kids know that you are keeping track and that you
care about what they see and do online. For more information on
plagiarism and the Internet, link to
http://www.plagiarized.com/.
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Familiarize yourself with the school district's policy on
cheating and the laws regarding plagiarizing and
copyright infringement. Sometimes the threat of being found out,
having to pay fines and possibly even serve jail time are enough
to keep teens on the straight and narrow.
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article, please contact the Capital Region BOCES Communications
Service by e-mailing
dbushsuf@gw.neric.org.
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